Living Above the Bar: 12 Qualities That Win Hearts, Influence Lives, and Appeal to the World

About this book

The world consistently applauds certain traits—resilience, adaptability, emotional intelligence, authenticity, and work ethic - to name a few. These values drive personal and professional success, as proven by research in psychology, business, and social sciences. We admire people who “keep their cool” under pressure, who “think outside the box,” and “bounce back stronger” after setbacks and failure. Likewise, there’s a deep respect for those who manage time well, continuously learn, and approach life with discipline and determination.What’s remarkable is that these traits are not merely secular ideals—they are embodied in the godly believers throughout the Bible. Christians are called to live out these virtues, not only to benefit their own lives but to reflect Christ and draw others to Him through their example. But what happens when believers fall short in these areas? When we react poorly to challenges, crumble under adversity, or fail to manage our resources, what does this say about our faith?In a world growing increasingly divisive, particularly in times of political or social upheaval, Eggerichs believes this message is more relevant than ever. How often do believers and nonbelievers alike abandon these values in heated debates, leaving behind nasty comments, causing tense family gatherings, or letting emotions run high? This book is written specifically to encourage Christians to embody these qualities, to live above the bar while standing firm in our convictions, and to let the power of the Holy Spirit shine through us as we follow Jesus.Each chapter explores one of the twelve traits that, when embraced, reflect Christ’s character, win hearts, influence lives, and appeal to the world. This book is for Believers who long to live a life of integrity, influence, and Christlike character—no matter the circumstances.