Marshall B. Rosenberg

The latest edition of the communication guide that has sold more than 1,000,000 copies An enlightening look at how peaceful communication can create compassionate connections with family, friends, and other acquaintances, this international bestseller uses stories, examples, and sample dialogues to provide solutions to communication problems both at home and in the workplace. Guidance is provided on identifying and articulating feelings and needs, expressing anger fully, and exploring the power of empathy in order to speak honestly without creating hostility, break patterns of thinking that lead to anger and depression, and communicate compassionately. Included in the new edition is a chapter on conflict resolution and mediation.

You can feel it when it hits you. Your face flushes and your vision narrows. Your heartbeat increases as judgmental thoughts flood your mind. Your anger has been triggered, and you're about to say or do something that will likely make it worse. You have an alternative. By practicing the Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process you can use that anger to serve a specific, life-enriching purpose. It tells you that you're disconnected from what you value and that your needs are not being met. Rather than managing your anger by suppressing your feelings or blasting someone with your judgments, Marshall Rosenberg shows you how to use anger to discover what you need, and then how to meet your needs in constructive ways. This booklet will help you apply these four key truths:- People or events may spark your anger but your own judgments are its cause- Judging others as "wrong" prevents you from connecting with your unmet needs- Getting clear about your needs helps you identify solutions satisfying to everyone- Creating strategies focused on meeting your needs transforms anger into positive actions

Your search for parenting tips that actually improve your family dynamics is over. While other parenting resources offer communication models or discipline techniques, this powerful, practical booklet offers the unique skills and perspective of the Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process. NVC stresses the importance of putting compassionate connection first to create a mutually respectful, enriching family dynamic filled with clear, heartfelt communication. An exceptional resource for parents, parent educators, families and anyone else who works with children.For over forty years, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg has taught NVC to parents, families, children and teachers. Parents around the world have used his advice to deepen family connections, move past conflicts and improve communication. His revolutionary approach helps parents motivate children to cooperate without either the threat of punishment or the promise of reward. Learn how to model compassionate communication in the home to help your children successfully resolve conflicts and express themselves clearly.

In every interaction, every conversation and in every thought, you have a choice – to promote peace or perpetuate violence. International peacemaker, mediator and healer, Dr. Marshall B. Rosenberg shows you how the language you use is the key to enriching life. Take the first step to reduce violence, heal pain, resolve conflicts and spread peace on our planet – by developing an internal consciousness of peace rooted in the language you use each day.Speak Peace is filled with inspiring stories, lessons and ideas drawn from over 40 years of mediating conflicts and healing relationships in some of the most war torn, impoverished, and violent corners of the world. Speak Peace offers insight, practical skills, and powerful tools that will profoundly change your relationships and the course of your life for the better.Bestselling author of the internationally acclaimed, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life. Discover how you can create an internal consciousness of peace as the first step toward effective personal, professional, and social change. Find complete chapters on the mechanics of Nonviolent Communication, effective conflict resolution, transforming business culture, transforming enemy images, addressing terrorism, transforming authoritarian structures, expressing and receiving gratitude, and social change.

Our words have the power to create profound healing-or incredible suffering. Yet even with the best intentions, it is often difficult to express ourselves in ways that build harmony and trust. Speaking Peace presents a seminal four-part model you can use immediately to connect to the spirit of love and generosity within you, and start contributing to the wellbeing of everyone you relate to. Join Marshall Rosenberg, the visionary author of Nonviolent Communication, to learn: How to use your natural empathy to defuse stressful situations and safely confront anger, fear, and other emotions * Proven skills for overcoming "dehumanizing" communication patterns that block compassion * How to see through the eyes of others to foster understanding, and more. When you convey "what is alive in you"-your true feelings, and the values and desires behind them-you establish honest, nurturing relationships that eventually fulfill everyone's needs, teaches Marshall Rosenberg. Align your speech with your heart's purest depths with Speaking Peace.

Many of us think of love as a strong emotion, a feeling we have for another person. Marshall Rosenberg's helps us take a wholly different and life-enriching approach to love. Love is something you "do," something you give freely from the heart. Using the Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process, learn how to express yourself nakedly and honestly to your partner, friends, or family, for no other purpose than to reveal what's present or alive in you. Discover what thousands of people around the world already A heart to heart connection strengthened by joyfully giving and receiving is the love you long to experience.Discover how - Free yourself from the burden of proving your love and requiring proof in return- Avoid doing anything out of guilt, resentment, shame or obligation- Learn to effectively express how you are and what you need

Bei Auseinandersetzungen und Gewalt geht es immer auch um den Wunsch nach Wertschätzung und Respekt. "Im Herzen des Feindes" liegt der Kern des Problems - und die Lösung. Empathie ist der Weg. Im persönlichen Gespräch mit Gabriele Seils zeigt der international bekannte Psychologe, wie man Hass überwinden kann: Gewaltfreie Kommunikation ist möglich. Eine faszinierende Alternative.

The tenets of Nonviolent Communication are applied to a variety of settings, including the classroom and the home, in these booklets on how to resolve conflict peacefully. Illustrative exercises, sample stories, and role-playing activities offer the opportunity for self-evaluation, discovery, and application.Applying the Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process to conflict resolution inspires peaceful collaboration by focusing on the unmet needs that lie at the root of any given conflict. Practical techniques help mediators and participants to find the heart of the conflict and use genuine cooperation to reach resolutions that meet everyone’s needs.

Marshall Rosenberg's remarkable process of Nonviolent Communication™ has gained worldwide recognition as a tool for turning even the most volatile situations into a natural interchange of compassion, generosity, and mutual enrichment. Modeled after this visionary peacemaker's nine-day international intensive retreats, The Nonviolent Communication Training Course presents the first ever self-guided curriculum for putting Rosenberg's transformative ideas into everyday practice―whether you're at the office, at the dinner table, in a parent-teacher conference―any situation where you want to honor what is alive in yourself and others. Join the pioneering creator of NVC for more than nine hours of in-depth instruction that Nine immersive CDs that teach you how to use NVC to discuss difficult emotions, deepen intimate relationships, mediate impossible conflicts, and much moreWorkbook with more than 50 exercises to strengthen your ability to successfully apply NVC in the fieldSeven Nonviolent Communication training cards you can use on the spot to express yourself and listen to others Course Identify the four steps of the Nonviolent Communication processEmploy the four-step Nonviolent Communication process in every dialogue you engage inUtilize empathy to safely confront anger, fear, and other powerful emotionsDiscover how to overcome the blocks to compassion, and open to our natural desire to enrich the lives of those around us

According to Marshall B. Rosenberg, Ph.D., our most basic spiritual need is to contribute to the well being of others and ourselves. His brief, unscripted reflections on the spiritual basis of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) will inspire you not only to connect with the Divine in yourself and others, but to begin to create a world of empathy and compassion, where the language we use is the key to enriching life.Discover an intensely satisfying and joyful spiritual experience that begins with you. In these rich pages, learn how NVC can help you achieve a more practical, applied spirituality.Discover how - Strengthen the connection between your actions and your spiritual values- Let go of enemy images and moralistic judgments, and experience our common humanity- Connect with others from a place of compassionate energy

When Students Love to Learn and Teachers Love to TeachIn this revolutionary book, Marshall Rosenberg empowers educators to transform schools into life-serving, learning-rich environments that maximize the potential of each student.Filled with insight, adaptable exercises and role-plays, Life-Enriching Education gives educators practical skills to generate mutually respectful classroom relationships. Discover how our language and organizational structures directly impact student potential, trust, self-esteem and student enjoyment in their learning. Rediscover the joy of teaching in a classroom where each person's needs are respected!Learn Practical Skills - Maximize student potential- Strengthen your classroom community- Resolve and prevent conflicts peacefully- Improve the quality of classroom and school relationships

In this important and insightful work, Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD, demonstrates the powerful healing potential of the Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process. You can transform emotional pain, depression, shame, and conflict into empowering connections. Rosenberg shares that behind all emotional pain are unmet needs. He provides simple steps to create the heartfelt presence necessary for healing to occur. Learn how to transform your relationships, find satisfying reconciliation, and move beyond pain to a place of clear, honest communication.Through role-play dialogues and every-day examples, Rosenberg demonstrates the keys to healing pain and conflict without compromise. The healing power of NVC provides practical and effective tools for individuals, mental health practitioners, mediators, families and couples.

In this keynote address to a national conference of Montessori educators, Marshall Rosenberg describes his progressive, radical approach to teaching that centers on compassionate connection. Marshall describes the counterproductive role that power and punishment play in our schools, and challenges educators to motivate students instead "by a reverence for life." This practical application of Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process offers educators the tools to create exceptional learning environments. This is an exceptional resource for teachers, school counselors, school administrators, child care providers and more!Nonviolent Communication will help - Maximize the individual potential of all students- Improve trust and connection in your classroom community- Strengthen student interest, retention and connection to their work- Find cooperation without using demands- Improve classroom teamwork, efficiency and results

“A Comunicação Não Violenta conecta uma alma a outra, permite a cura e nos ajuda a expressar com toda a sinceridade o que está ou não em harmonia com nossas necessidades. É o elemento que falta em tudo que fazemos.” ? DEEPAK CHOPRA, autor de As sete leis espirituais do sucesso A Comunicação Não Violenta (CNV) é um dos temas mais transformadores e fundamentais que nós da Sextante já publicamos. Ela é tão essencial que deveria ser ensinada a todas as pessoas, assim como ler, escrever e fazer as quatro operações matemáticas. Mais do que uma técnica para resolver conflitos, é um modo de ser, de pensar e de viver que, como diz Marshall Rosenberg, “nos ensina a expressar o que está vivo em nós e a enxergar o que está vivo nos outros. Assim podemos descobrir o que fazer para enriquecer essa vida”. Além de oferecer uma introdução à Comunicação Não Violenta, este livro trata dos seguintes temas: • Podemos dar um jeito: como resolver conflitos de forma pacífica e eficaz • Amar sendo eu mesmo: como criar relações amorosas sem abrir mão de nossos valores e integridade • Superando a dor entre nós: como alcançar a reconciliação e a cura sem fazer concessões • O propósito surpreendente da raiva: para além do gerenciamento da raiva, como encontrar sua virtude • Criando filhos com compaixão: como educar de acordo com a CNV • Espiritualidade prática: reflexões sobre a base espiritual da CNV Capa comum: 192 páginasEditora: Editora Sextante (15 de julho de 2019)Idioma: PortuguêsISBN-10: 8543106729ISBN-13: 978-8543106724<

What is Violent Communication? If “violent” means acting in ways that result in hurt or harm, then much of how we communicate—judging others, bullying, having racial bias, blaming, finger pointing, discriminating, speaking without listening, criticizing others or ourselves, name-calling, reacting when angry, using political rhetoric, being defensive or judging who’s “good/bad” or what’s “right/wrong” with people—could indeed be called “violent communication.” What is Nonviolent Communication? Nonviolent Communication is the integration of four a set of principles that support living a life of compassion, collaboration, courage, and authenticity understanding how words contribute to connection or distance knowing how to ask for what we want, how to hear others even in disagreement, and how to move toward solutions that work for all Means of sharing “power with others” rather than using “power over others” Nonviolent Communication serves our desire to do three Increase our ability to live with choice, meaning, and connection Connect empathically with self and others to have more satisfying relationships Sharing of resources so everyone is able to benefit

The tenets of Nonviolent Communication are applied to a variety of settings, including the classroom and the home, in these booklets on how to resolve conflict peacefully. Illustrative exercises, sample stories, and role-playing activities offer the opportunity for self-evaluation, discovery, and application.This insightful perspective on effective social change is illustrated with how-to examples.

Эта книга наполнена вдохновляющими историями, уроками и идеями, почерпнутыми автором из более чем 40-летнего опыта посредничества в конфликтах и исцеления отношений в некоторых из самых разоренных войной, бедных и жестоких уголков мира. Здесь вы найдете полные главы, посвященные практике ненасильственного общения, эффективному разрешению конфликтов, преобразованию деловой культуры, изменению образа врага, борьбе с терроризмом, преобразованию авторитарных структур, выражению и получению благодарности, а также социальным изменениям.

Você sente quando ela bate. Seu rosto fica vermelho e sua visão focaliza o objeto do descontentamento. O ritmo cardíaco aumenta e pensamentos julgadores inundam sua mente. A raiva foi deflagrada e você está prestes a dizer algo que provavelmente vai piorar a situação. Existe uma alternativa. A Comunicação Não Violenta nos ensina que a raiva serve a um propósito específico, que enriquece a vida. É um sinal de alerta mostrando que você se desligou de coisas valiosas para você e que suas necessidades não estão sendo atendidas. Ao invés de lidar com a raiva reprimindo sentimentos ou agredindo alguém com seus julgamentos, Marshall Rosenberg mostra como usar a raiva para descobrir o que você precisa e como atender suas necessidades de modo construtivo. Este livro ajudará você a se tornar mais consciente de 4 verdades Pessoas e acontecimentos podem ser o gatilho da sua raiva, mas seus pensamentos são a causa. Julgar que os outros estão “errados” nos impede de fazer a conexão com nossas necessidades não atendidas. Ter uma visão clara de nossas necessidades nos ajuda a identificar soluções satisfatórias para todos. Criar estratégias focadas no atendimento de nossas necessidades transforma a raiva em ações positivas.

Une communication de qualité entre soi et les autres est aujourd’hui et pour le futur une des compétences les plus indispensables et les plus précieuses. Par un processus en quatre points, M. Rosenberg met ici à notre disposition un outil très simple dans son principe, mais extrêmement puissant pour améliorer radicalement et assainir notre relation tant avec nous-même qu’avec autrui.Grâce à des histoires, des exemples et des dialogues simples, nous apprendrons entre autres à transformer des conflits potentiels en dialogues paisibles, à briser les schémas de pensée qui mènent à la colère et à la déprime, à dire ce que nous désirons sans susciter d’hostilité, à utiliser le pouvoir guérisseur de l’empathie... Bien plus qu’un processus, c’est un chemin d’ouverture, de cohérence, de lucidité, d’authenticité, d’harmonie et de maturité qui nous est ici proposé.

Staré pojetí vzdělávání se soustředilo na vytváření poslušných studentů, kteří sledují jednotné cíle bez ohledu na vlastní přístup k učení. Slavný autor konceptu nenásilné komunikace ale nabízí jiný přístup, jenž je založen na vzájemně respektujícím vztahu mezi studenty, učiteli, školskými úředníky a rodiči. Cílem takového pojetí je naplnit potřeby všech zúčastněných – zvýšit zájem studentů, vytvořit přátelskou a podpůrnou atmosféru, ulehčit vyjadřování emocí, řešit konflikty, předcházet násilí a v neposlední řadě znovu nalézt radost z toho, že učitel učí motivované studenty. Škola je pojata tak, že vztahy mezi učiteli a studenty, mezi studenty navzájem i mezi studenty a tím, co se učí, jsou stejně důležité. Děti pomocí tohoto přístupu mohou samostatně myslet, nalézt smysl v tom, co se učí, a společně žít a pracovat. Kniha je doplněna řadou cvičení a praktických podnětů.

Wie lösen wir Meinungsverschiedenheiten?Stehen Bewertungen im Zentrum der zwischenmenschlichen Kommunikation, wird unser Gegenüber wahrscheinlich mit Angst, Abwehr oder Schuldgefühlen reagieren. Sind jedoch Ehrlichkeit und Empathie die Basis, können wir in diesem geschützten Rahmen voneinander lernen und uns gegenseitig bereichern. Ehrlichkeit und Empathie sind das Herz einer jeden Kommunikation, die einen echten Austausch und friedliche Lösungen bei noch so großen Unterschieden zum Ziel hat.Dieses Buch enthält:• die vier Schritte der GFK, kurz und knapp• viele praktische Übungen• Beispielsätze und Übersichten„In diesem Buch geht es um kommunikative Fähigkeiten zum gewaltfreien Lösen von Meinungsverschiedenheiten. Mithilfe der Übungen können wir lernen, uns empathisch auszutauschen und unser Leben zu bereichern.“ – Marshall B. Rosenberg

Čeká vás nepříjemné setkání se šéfem. Právě vám volala učitelka, aby si postěžovala na vaše dospívající dítě. Je večer a pohádali jste se s partnerem. Co uděláte?Všichni se čas od času ocitáme v podobných situacích a až příliš často se uchylujeme ke starým neúčinným vzorcům chování – obhajujeme svoji potřebu mít pravdu, odmítáme opravdu naslouchat, kvůli hněvu nebo frustraci říkáme kruté věci. Jenže lze to i jinak, a právě pro takové situace vytvořil Marshall Rosenberg svou slavnou nenásilnou komunikaci. Kniha je vlastně souborem kratších autorových textů a pokrývá tak široku škálu témat od řešení konfliktů přes práci s hněvem, s duchovností či s láskou a vztahy až po výchovu dětí. Díky mnoha přepisům rozhovorů čtenář uvidí, jak metoda nenásilné komunikace funguje v praxi.

Estás a punto de tener una reunión desagradable con tu jefe. La dirección del colegio de tu hijo te acaba de llamar para hablar contigo. Te has peleado con tu pareja una hora antes de acostarte. Sabes que el paso que des a continuación influirá mucho en tus relaciones con esas personas. Entonces… ¿qué piensas hacer? En un momento u otro, todos nos vemos en situaciones parecidas y, por desgracia, normalmente, caemos en los viejos patrones de conducta enraizados en la ira y la frustración, o algo peor. Pero hay otra forma, Vivir la comunicación no violenta te ofrece un entrenamiento práctico en la aplicación del conocido proceso de Marshall Rosenberg para la resolución de conflictos. No en vano, él mismo inició y estableció programas de paz en lugares como Ruanda, Nigeria, Malasia, Oriente Medio, Serbia, Croacia e Irlanda. La comunicación no violenta se practica con éxito desde hace cuatro décadas, en treinta y cinco países, por una sencilla razó porque funciona. Ahora, con este libro, puedes aprender a activar su potencial no solo para alcanzar tus objetivos, sino también para sanar y transformar tus relaciones y tu vida, y con ello contribuir a la creación de un mundo más justo y compasivo.

Wie kann ich als Giraffe kommunizieren, wenn die Welt scheinbar voller Wölfe ist? Marshall Rosenberg arbeitete in seinen Seminaren mit zwei mit der Giraffe und dem Wolf. Beide Tiere stehen für bestimmte Haltungen, für bestimmte Arten zu kommunizieren. Der Wolf neigt zu Verurteilungen, Beschuldigungen und erzeugt Scham. Die Giraffe hingegen ist empathisch und spricht eine Sprache des Herzens. Deshalb wird die Gewaltfreie Kommunikation häufig auch als Giraffensprache bezeichnet. Was ist das Besondere an der Giraffensprache? Mit Seminarteilnehmer*innen erarbeitet Rosenberg dies mithilfe konkreter Alltagsituationen. Es zeigt Wenn empathisches Zuhören und das Teilen von Gefühlen und Bedürfnissen zur Grundlage des Kontakts mit uns selbst und mit anderen werden, verbessert sich auch unsere Lebensqualität.

The Nonviolent Communication Book of Quotes shows how the NVC process makes life more wonderful through the joy of compassionate giving. The Nonviolent Communication Book of Quotes by Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD, brings together gems from books, the internet, and previously unpublished workshops that the creator of NVC offered during his lifetime. This lively compilation will make you laugh and cry, and inspire you to change your life, your work, your world. Quotes are organized so readers learn the four-part Nonviolent Communication (NVC) process, then explore its myriad applications. Rosenberg's essential insight was that humans universally enjoy making life more wonderful through compassionate giving. The revolutionary psychologist transformed tens of thousands of lives by enabling NVC practitioners to focus on feelings and needs, creating connections without competition, judgment, or demands. Rosenberg's work applied NVC principles to people and situations worldwide, from families to schools to offices, from gangs to warring tribes and nations. These quotes don't just reveal Rosenberg's methods; his trademark humor, kindness, and intuitive brilliance shine from every page.

I'm writing this manual to make available some communication skills that I believe empower us to exchange resources and resolve differences nonviolently. The skills to be described are those necessary to offer and receive empowering evaluations. In contrast to evaluations which influence people to act on the basis of fear and guilt, empowering evaluations provide opportunities for people to nurture, educate, and protect one another and are the nucleus of communication necessary to exchange resources and resolve differences nonviolently. Empowering evaluations What we are observing (the subject of Chapter 2); - What we are feeling (the subject of Chapter 3); - What we are valuing (the subject of Chapter 4); - What we are requesting ( the subject of Chapter 5); - Receiving empowering evaluations will be the subject of Chapter 6.

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Marshall Rosenberg a inventé et développé la Communication NonViolente (CNV) grâce, entre autres, à une méditation approfondie des épreuves qui ont jalonné son existence. Il s’appuie dans sa démarche sur l’approche de l’écoute active centrée sur la personne développée par Carl Rogers.À l’âge de neuf ans, il subissait les vexations de ses petits camarades ; bien que blessé profondément, il avait aussi observé combien son oncle irradiait de joie, même lorsqu’il consacrait son temps à aider sa mère en fin de vie. Le mystère de ces deux sortes d’êtres humains l’a taraudé toute sa vie. Père de famille, il testait déjà les premiers principes de la CNV, qu’il utiliserait plus tard pour développer des écoles-girafes et pour devenir médiateur au sein de conflits internationaux graves (Israël/Palestine, Rwanda, etc.).Rédigé par une journaliste, également médiatrice et formatrice en CNV, ce livre est un long entretien au cours duquel Marshall Rosenberg parle de sa philosophie, aborde les relations amoureuses ou l’éducation des enfants, nous livre le secret de son incroyable énergie et nous invite à nous engager pour un monde plus vrai et plus humain.Pour ceux qui connaissent déjà la CNV, cet ouvrage apportera des éclairages nouveaux sur l’homme Rosenberg. Pour ceux qui la découvrent, il leur donnera envie d’en savoir plus, car la CNV peut révolutionner nos relations et transformer notre société – elle est d’ailleurs déjà en train de le faire !Marshall B. Rosenberg (1934 - 2015) a été le fondateur et le directeur des services éducatifs du Centre pour la Communication NonViolente. Il a parcouru le monde pour promouvoir la paix et proposer des moyens d’entente pacifique. Il est notamment l’auteur de Les mots sont des fenêtres (ou des murs), Nous arriverons à nous entendre !, Les bases spirituelles de la Communication NonViolente et Enseigner avec bienveillance, tous parus aux Éditions Jouvence.