
Gavin de Becker is an expert on the prediction and management of violence. He has served on President's Advisory Board at the U.S. Department of Justice and the Governor's Advisory Board at the California Department of Mental Health; he now runs a consulting firm which advises government agencies, universities, police departments, corporations, and media figures on the assessment of threats and hazards.
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 4.3 ⭐
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True fear is a gift.Unwarranted fear is a curse.Learn how to tell the difference.A date won't take "no" for an answer. The new nanny gives a mother an uneasy feeling. A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers unsolicited help. The threat of violence surrounds us every day. But we can protect ourselves, by learning to trust—and act on—our gut instincts.In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the man Oprah Winfrey calls the nation's leading expert on violent behavior, shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger—before it's too late. Shattering the myth that most violent acts are unpredictable, de Becker, whose clients include top Hollywood stars and government agencies, offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including how to act when approached by a stranger, when you should fear someone close to you, what to do if you are being stalked, how to uncover the source of anonymous threats or phone calls, the biggest mistake you can make with a threatening person, and more. Learn to spot the danger signals others miss. It might just save your life.
Safety skills for children outside the home Warning signs of sexual abuse How to screen baby-sitters and choose schools Strategies for keeping teenagers safe from violenceAll parents face the same challenges when it comes to their children's safety: whom to trust, whom to distrust, what to believe, what to doubt, what to fear, and what not to fear. In this empowering book, Gavin de Becker, the nation's leading expert on predicting violent behavior and author of the monumental bestseller The Gift of Fear, offers practical new steps to enhance children's safety at every age level, giving you the tools you need to allow your kids freedom without losing sleep yourself. With daring and compassion, he shatters the widely held myths about danger and safety and helps parents find some certainty about life's highest-stakes questions: How can I know a baby-sitter won't turn out to be someone who harms my child? (see page 103) What should I ask child-care professionals when I interview them? (see page 137) What's the best way to prepare my child for walking to school alone? (see page 91) How can my child be safer at school? (see page 175) How can I spot sexual predators? (see page 148) What should I do if my child is lost in public? (see page 86) How can I teach my child about risk without causing too much fear? (see page 98) What must my teenage daughter know in order to be safe? (see page 191) What must my teenage son know in order to be safe? (see page 218) And finally, in the face of all these questions, how can I reduce the worrying? (see page 56)
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 4.0 ⭐
Gavin de Becker's landmark book The Gift Of Fear showed millions of readers how to better protect themselves from violence and unwarranted fear. Now, in Fear Less, de Becker answers the questions many Americans have been asking since September 11th. Can air travel be safe? What is the risk of biological or chemical attack? Can the government detect and prevent future acts? How can we best talk to our children about what has happened and what might happen? What can we do to reduce fear and worry? What specific steps can we take to reduce terrorism? What are terrorists likely to do next? Most simply, is everything going to be all right? De Becker says, "Just as your imagination has placed you in frightening situations, it is now time to place yourself in empowering situations, time to see that you have a role to play, and contrary to so many TV news stories, it isn't just victim-in-waiting." Fear Less offers specific recommendations that can enhance our national security and our individual safety--and help put fear into perspective.
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 4.3 ⭐
Think of every assassination you've ever heard about. For most people, a few of these major ones come to Caesar, Abraham Lincoln, John Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Mahatma Gandhi, Indira Gandhi, Anwar Sadat, John Lennon, Israel's Prime Minister Rabin, Pakistan's Benazir Bhutto. From start to finish, all of these attacks combined took place in less than one minute. And the hundreds of attacks studied for this book, all of them combined, took place in less than a half-hour. Those thirty minutes, surely the most influential in world history, offer important insights that can help today's protectors defeat tomorrow's attackers. This 650-Page Book An original work of new insights arising from ten years of research;The Five Essential Lessons for protectors;The Compendium - 400 pages of summarized attacks, near attacks, and incidents against at-risk persons all over the world from 1960-2007, more than 1400 entries;and the Appendices - More than 100 pages of additional material and resources.
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 4.8 ⭐
Have Government agencies and big corporations ever created and promoted outright lies and cover-ups?Of course they have. When they do it together, that is the definition of conspiracy.Internationally recognized criminologist and bestselling author of The Gift of Fear, Gavin de Becker, investigates how the Government ‘debunks’ inconvenient and unwanted truths. This story of true crime includes bogus research, bribes, compromised experts, paid conspirators, destruction of evidence, and massive publicity campaigns to discredit people and truths that don’t fit official wishes.Readers are provided real-time access to original source material that clearly details how Government agencies and Big Pharma have routinely conspired to deceive the public on matters of profound importance.
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 3.9 ⭐
Between 1984 and 1995, at least 72 individuals were convicted during the national hysteria of mass child molestation and satanic ritual abuse cases. Almost all those convictions have since been overturned. This paper analyzes the present-day, on-going impact from wrongful convictions, focusing on the Friedman case, well-known as the subject of the landmark documentary film, Capturing the Friedmans. Though the US Appeals Court has ruled that Jesse Friedman was likely wrongfully convicted, the case has not yet been overturned. The impact on wrongly-imprisoned defendants is obvious, however the impact on hundreds of children has rarely been considered. Initially sure they were not sexually abused, and confident in their perceptions of reality, these children were dragged to a place of confusion, mistrust of adults, and uncertainty about themselves and the world. This paper provides new evidence and insight from extensive interviews with people police alleged were molested – and who now as adults confirm they were coerced into making false accusations. Also revealed are new witnesses who were present during alleged crimes against others, and now confirm there was no molestation. Child sexual abuse does happen, of course, and is a profound social issue; at the same time, false and hysteria-driven prosecutions robbed resources from cases of actual sex crimes, reduce the public’s faith in the legitimacy of such prosecutions, and interfered with the protection of children. The Friedman case provides a unique opportunity to heal a community still suffering from the wounds of false accusation, confusion, and deceit.
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 3.7 ⭐
Gift of Fear, Meditations on Violence and Drills 3 Books Collection Set The Gift of True fear is a gift. Unwarranted fear is a curse.Learn how to tell the difference. A date won't take "no" for an answer. The new nanny gives a mother an uneasy feeling. A stranger in a deserted parking lot offers unsolicited help. The threat of violence surrounds us every day. But we can protect ourselves, by learning to trust--and act on--our gut instincts. Meditations on Explores the complexity of violence, critical thinking, and the mind of the predator. This title offers martial arts training guidance and resources, and discusses how to overcome personal fears, and how to deal with the aftermath of violent encounters. WINNER - Self-Help, 2016 Best Books AwardThe speed and brutality of apredatory attack can shock even an experienced martial artist. The suddenchaos, the cascade of stress hormonesyou feel as though time slows down. Inreality, the assault is over in an instant. How does anyone prepare for that? As a former correctionssergeant and tactical team leader, Rory Miller is a proven survivor.
In his national bestsellers The Gift of Fear and Protecting the Gift, Gavin de Becker showed millions of readers that intuition is the key to making the high-stakes predictions we all face in life. Now he takes readers a step further with humor, creating 150 brainteasers designed to hone intuitive skills, sharpen underused mental powers, and provide hours of stimulating entertainment.For example ...-- ni4ni (a Biblical phrase)-- @ ee (a military command)-- irighti (a famous expression)-- SSSSSSSSSS nel? (an athlete's question)-- TN M N (site of a famous protest)-- TEEN TEEN TEEN TEEN TTTTTTTT 2 (a famous date in history)Fun and challenging, Thinking Caps is a collection of invigorating exercises for the mind.
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 4.3 ⭐
Um dos maiores especialistas em mentes criminosas apresenta histórias reais para você prever situações de perigo e se proteger.“Um livro de não ficção que parece um suspense... instigante... empoderador.” – The Boston Globe “Gavin de Becker tem uma familiaridade enciclopédica com mentes criminosas e agora compartilha esse conhecimento.” – Marcia Clark, promotora“Um livro fascinante e esclarecedor que destrincha o fenômeno da violência e mostra como se proteger.” – Erika Holzer, autora de Eye for an EyeUm sequestrador à espreita em um estacionamento. Um marido abusivo batendo com força na porta. Uma babá deixando uma mãe com um mau pressentimento.Ninguém está livre de ser alvo da violência, mas segundo Gavin de Becker, renomado especialista em segurança, todos nós temos a capacidade de prever e evitar situações de risco.Contando diversos casos reais envolvendo perigos que as pessoas costumam enfrentar, ele nos ensina a detectar sinais de alerta e confiar na própria intuição – a principal arma para a defesa pessoal.Combinação notável de orientações práticas e dados reveladores sobre o comportamento humano, este livro é essencial para quem deseja viver com uma sensação maior de segurança
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 4.0 ⭐
Have Government agencies and big corporations ever created and promoted outright lies and cover-ups?Of course they have. When they do it together, that is the definition of conspiracy.Internationally recognized criminologist and bestselling author of The Gift of Fear, Gavin de Becker, investigates how the Government ‘debunks’ inconvenient and unwanted truths. This story of true crime includes bogus research, bribes, compromised experts, paid conspirators, destruction of evidence, and massive publicity campaigns to discredit people and truths that don’t fit official wishes.Readers are provided real-time access to original source material that clearly details how Government agencies and Big Pharma have routinely conspired to deceive the public on matters of profound importance.
by Gavin de Becker
Rating: 4.0 ⭐
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En Fuera de peligro, el experto en seguridad Gavin de Becker muestra que, como cualquier otra criatura, los seres humanos podemos predecir la violencia. En consecuencia, anima a los padres, y en general a todos los adultos, a confiar en la intuición como una de las principales herramientas para proteger a los niños. El objetivo de De Becker no es crear pánico ni desestimar los temores, sino mostrar cuáles son los peligros reales que amenazan a los niños hoy día, pues sólo al estar conscientes de ellos en su verdadera dimensión todos podremos protegerlos más efectivamente. Según De Becker, el conocimiento de los riesgos reales, y por lo tanto su adecuada prevención, es el elemento indispensable para la seguridad, puesto que lo que generalmente nos inquieta es no saber con claridad cuáles son los riesgos ni cómo tomar las medidas necesarias. Con este fin, Fuera de peligro presenta de manera clara y precisa mucha información sobre el comportamiento y las estrategias de los depredadores de niños y enseña métodos prácticos para aumentar su seguridad sin importar la edad. Incluye, por ejemplo, preguntas específicas que los padres pueden hacer en los jardines infantiles, o a los doctores o las niñeras; señales de alerta que ayudan a proteger a los niños de abusos sexuales; y formas de alejar a los adolescentes de situaciones riesgosas con adultos o amigos. De Becker también refuta muchas de las reglas sobre seguridad que los padres usualmente les enseñan a sus hijos, tales como ”nunca hables con extraños”, y explica por qué éstas a veces pueden ser contraproducentes para su seguridad. Al terminar de leer este libro todos los padres se sentirán más tranquilos, liberados de muchos temores infundados y preocupaciones innecesarias, pues al estar más conscientes de los peligros reales y saber cómo reaccionar apropiadamente, podrán prevenir las situaciones de riesgo y tener un control más efectivo sobre la seguridad de sus hijos.