Allan Pease

Librarian note: An alternative cover for this ISBN can be found here.Have you ever wished your partner came with an instruction booklet? This international bestseller is the answer to all the things you've ever wondered about the opposite sex.For their controversial new book on the differences between the way men and women think and communicate, Barbara and Allan Pease spent three years traveling around the world, collecting the dramatic findings of new research on the brain, investigating evolutionary biology, analyzing psychologists, studying social changes, and annoying the locals.The result is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating, and frequently hilarious look at where the battle line is drawn between the sexes, why it was drawn, and how to cross it. Read this book and understand--at last!--why men never listen, why women can't read maps, and why learning each other's secrets means you'll never have to say sorry again.

Available for the first time in the United States, this international bestseller reveals the secrets of nonverbal communication to give you confidence and control in any face-to-face encounter–from making a great first impression and acing a job interview to finding the right partner.It is a scientific fact that people’s gestures give away their true intentions. Yet most of us don’t know how to read body language–and don’t realize how our own physical movements speak to others. Now the world’s foremost experts on the subject share their techniques for reading body language signals to achieve success in every area of life.Drawing upon more than thirty years in the field, as well as cutting-edge research from evolutionary biology, psychology, and medical technologies that demonstrate what happens in the brain, the authors examine each component of body language and give you the basic vocabulary to read attitudes and emotions through behavior. Discover:• How palms and handshakes are used to gain control• The most common gestures of liars• How the legs reveal what the mind wants to do• The most common male and female courtship gestures and signals• The secret signals of cigarettes, glasses, and makeup• The magic of smiles–including smiling advice for women• How to use nonverbal cues and signals to communicate more effectively and get the reactions you wantFilled with fascinating insights, humorous observations, and simple strategies that you can apply to any situation, this intriguing book will enrich your communication with and understanding of others–as well as yourself.

We all know that what people say is often very different from what they think or feel. Now with Body Language, you can learn to read others' thoughts by their gestures. You can use it to tell if someone is lying. Find out how to make yourself likeable, and how to encourage co-operation from other people. You can use it in countless work situations, including how to interview and negotiate successfully. You can even use it to find a compatible friend or partner. Over half a million people have learned the secrets of body language with Allan Pease, and you can too.

Allan and Barbara Pease, the international bestsell­ing authors of Why Men Don’t Listen & Women Can’t Read Maps , deliver their most exciting book yet. Will men and women ever see eye-to-eye about love and sex? How will relationships ever be rewarding if men only want to rush into bed and women want to rush to the altar? In this practical, witty and down-to-earth guide, couples experts Allan and Barbara Pease reveal the truth about how men and women can really get along. By translating science and cutting edge research into a powerful yet highly entertaining read, you’ll learn how to find true happiness and compatibility with the opposite sex. REVEALED IN THIS * The seven types of love* The top five things women want from men * What to do when the chemistry is wrong* What turns men and women on – and off!* The most common “New Relationship” mistakes and how to avoid them* How to decode “manspeak”If you want to get the most satisfaction from your relationship, or are single and looking for the right person, then you must read this book for the answer to Why Men Want Sex and Women Need Love .

Allan and Barbara Pease are the world’s foremost experts in personal relationships. Their books, seminars and TV programmes have made them household names from Australia to the UK and from the USA to Japan. In this, their first new book since the multi-million selling WHY MEN DON'T LISTEN AND WOMEN CAN'T READ MAPS, Allan and Barbara use the same combination of startling observation of people’s action toward one another, humour and practical advice to teach the reader more about what men want from relationships and what women want from relationships and how to get it.

How to discover what you want from life then make it happen This ground-breaking, category-killer from internationally acclaimed authors Allan and Barbara Pease will show you that changing your life starts with asking the right questions. The Answer:- Helps you take the first step towards change and decide what you want - Gives you the confidence to change your job, relationship or lifestyle- Discusses new scientific research into the brain’s ability to drive success - Allan and Barbara also share their personal stories of overcoming the oddsWhen disaster struck inspirational gurus Allan and Barbara Pease’s lives, they turned to science to learn how to turn failure into ultimate success. They discovered new studies of the brain that show how you can reprogram your mindset, enabling you to see opportunities, not difficulties. In The Answer the Peases share their experiences with honesty and humour and show you how to make your life what you want it to be.So if you want to improve your life but need help to make the first step to change The Answer will show you how to:- Ask the right questions of yourself- Gain confidence to change a job, relationship or lifestyle- Decide what you want and establish a true course in lifeIn The Answer you will discover that changing your life starts with asking the right questions.

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Do you know the top seven things men do that drive women nuts? Or the real reason women cry more than men do? What are men really looking for in a woman—both at first sight and for the long-term? These are only the starting points for Barbara and Allan Pease as they discuss the very real—and often very funny—differences between the sexes. Why Men Don’t Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes takes a look at some of the issues that have confused men and women for centuries. Using new findings on the brain, studies of social changes, evolutionary biology, and psychology, the Peases teach you how to make the most of your relationships—or at least begin to understand where your partner is coming from. They help women understand why men avoid commitment, what drives them to lie, and how to decode male speech to find out what they are really saying. They explain to men why women nag, how they use emotional blackmail, and how to understand (and take advantage of!) the top-secret scoring system all women apply. They also dish about the top turn-ons--and turn-offs--for both sexes. Laced with their trademark humor, Why Men Don’t Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes addresses a host of nitty-gritty battlegrounds as well, from channel surfing and toilet seats to shopping and communication. Already a #1 bestseller in the United Kingdom, Germany, Japan, Holland, Spain, Brazil, Portugal, Belgium, Ireland, France, Czech Republic, India, Singapore, Malaysia, South Africa, New Zealand, and Australia, Why Men Don’t Have a Clue and Women Always Need More Shoes is the answer to understanding the opposite sex.

مرد و زن با هم متفاوت‌اند‏.‏ نه بهتر و نه بدتر، بلکه متفاوت‏.‏ تنها چیزی هر دو در آن شریک‌اند تعلق به یک نوع از جانداران است‏.‏ آن دو در دنیایی با ارزش‌ها و قواعد متفاوت زندگی می‌کنند‏.‏ همه این را می‌دانند اما تعداد بسیار اندکی، به ویژه از مردها حاضر به پذیرش آن هستند‏.‏ نگاهی به شواهد بکنید‏.‏ در کشورهای غربی نزدیک به 50 درصد از ازدواج‌ها به طلاق منجر می‌شوند و روابط بسیار جدی دیرپا نیستند و از هم می‌گسلند‏.‏ مردان و زنان از هر فرهنگ و نژاد و رنگ و کشوری مدام عقاید، رفتار، گرایشات و اعتقادات یکدیگر را مورد انتقاد قرار می‌دهند‏.‏مردها از رانندگی زنان، از سر و ته گرفتن نقشه، نداشتن حس جهت‌یابی، زیاد حرف زدن آن‌ها شکایت دارند‏.‏ مردها هرگز نمی‌توانند لنگه جورابشان را که گوشه‌ای پرت کرده‌اند، پیدا کنند اما سی‌دی‌های موسیقی‌شان را به طور الفبایی و مرتب بایگانی می‌کنند‏.‏ زن‌ها همیشه می‌توانند سوییچ گمشده‌ی ماشین را پیدا کنند، اما به ندرت مقصدی را در مسیری سرراست می‌یابند‏.‏ مردان فکر می‌کنند که منطقی‌ترند و زن‌ها اطمینان دارند که منطقی‌ترین‌اند‏.‏این کتاب تقدیم به مردان و زنانی می‌شود که نیمه‌شب از شدت عصبانیت موی سر می‌کنند و به شریک زندگی‌شان می‌گویند‏:‏ «آخر چرا نمی‌خواهی بفهمی؟»‏.‏ روابط از هم می‌گسلند برای اینکه مردان نمی‌توانند درک کنند چرا زن‌ها مثل آن‌ها نیستند و زنان انتظار دارند مردها رفتاری مثل آن‌ها داشته باشند‏.‏ این کتاب نه تنها کمک می‌کند که زن و مرد یکدیگر را بهتر درک کنند، بلکه آن‌ها را یاری دهد خود را بهتر بشناسند و طریقه‌ی زندگی سعادتمندتر، سالم‌تر و هماهنگ‌تری که بتواند لذتبخش و ارضاکننده باشد بیاموزند‏.‏

Learn the body language that will boost your confidence when it comes to relationships:- understanding the opposite sex- the art of flirtation and courtship signals - the importance of eye contact - does body language mean the same thing for him and for her?From first impressions to long-term relationships, "The Body Language of Love" will help you to identify and correct the body language which could be letting you down.

The desire to be recognised, to feel important and appreciated is all-powerful. And the more important you make someone feel, the more positively they will respond to you. We all admire those who seemto have the natural ability to enter an unfamiliar social situation and begin to engage others in conversation. These people have what is often called 'charisma'. While some people wonder how they do it, most assume that they must have a 'natural' talent. The reality is that 'charisma' is an acquired skill influential people and can be learned, enhanced and perfected when you have the right information and the determination to learn."Easy Peasy - People skills for Life" will provide you with the necessary skills you'll need to become influential with everyone in any situation. When you put these skills into action, don't be surprised if people begin asking, "Where did you get the ability to talk with people so successfully?" Even if they don't ask, they'll certainly be thinking about it, just as you once did.In this book you'll learn the essential skills that achieve extraordinary success with everyone!

Learn body language that will boost your performance in every business context:- clinch that deal or interview- give the perfect presentation- decipher and use international body language- understand eye contact- clarify confusing gender signals From negotiating the office party to the best way to arrange your office furniture, "Body Language in the Workplace" will help you to identify and correct the body language that's letting you down.

Sometimes people are so busy communicating they don't listen to each other. TALK LANGUAGE tells you how to understand what people are really saying, and why. Words represent only a small part of the information transmitted in conversation; just as important are circumstances and body language. TALK LANGUAGE shows how to decode a wide range of everyday signals, so you can get the message or intentions a speaker is really conveying - whether intentionally or not. It gives many examples of every day conversational phrases and what they really mean. TALK LANGUAGE will help you to express yourself clearly and concisely - and to interpret others' intentions if they do not reveal them. Its message can be applied to almost every facet of daily life.

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In de bestseller 'Waarom mannen niet luisteren en vrouwen niet kunnen kaartlezen' verkalen Allan en Barbara Pease de soms onoverbrugbare verschillen tussen man en vrouw. Hun nieuwe boek gaat nog een stuk verder en beschrijft wat er gebeurt wanneer de zo verschillende seksen zich tot elkaar aangetrokken voelen en - erger nog - met elkaar willen samenleven.

De ce suntem diferiti si ce-ar fi de facut Nu-i asa, doamnelor, ca aproape in fiecare zi va suparati pentru ca partenerul dumneavoastra, care pare sa nu aiba alta treaba decat sa priveasca la televizor in timpul liber, nu va raspunde la intrebari? Nu-i asa, domnilor, ca aproape zilnic sunteti agasati de palavrageala "fara sens" a partenerei dumneavoastra? Autorii acestei carti si-au propus sa prezinte unui public larg motivele pentru care barbatii si femeile gandesc diferit si ce este de facut in aceasta privinta. Uimitoarea lor carte porneste de la prezentarea ultimelor descoperiri in domeniile cercetarii asupra creierului, biologiei evolutioniste, geneticii, psihologiei si schim-barilor sociale. Rezultatul este o privire revelatoare, uneori socanta asupra teritoriului de lupta trasat intre sexe. Si poate mai impor-tant pentru fiecare dintre noi, cartea ne arata cum putem impaca diferentele de gandire dintre barbati si femei. Odata ce veti invata secretele celuilalt, nu veti mai cadea niciodata in capcana reprosurilor si a mustrarilor de constiinta.

As the festive season comes round once more, it can so easily be a time of increased stress for everyone - a time when the differences between men and women are never more apparent! Renowned relationship experts Allan and Barbara Pease tackle the Christmas Season to give a uniquely informative and fascinating guide:- Partners at Christmas - the battle of the sexes, made worse by the festive season- Kids at Christmas - how to get them to do what you want- Why women get upset at men's solutions to Christmas catering- And why men always get lost on the way to the in-laws Thank goodness Christmas only comes once a year...

It's scientific fact that people's body gestures give away their true intentions. Every day you're confronted by hundreds of different motions that can mean anything from "get lost" to "terrific idea." You too send out signals whether you realize it or not. Now you can take advantage of the secrets of body language for that extra edge of confidence and control in any situation. What it means when a man hooks his thumb in his belt. What it means when a woman exposes the soft skin on her wrist. How to control a person's gaze. The surefire methods of sexual attraction. How to take control of an interview or negotiation. The most strategic position to take at a business meetings. What kind of man straddles a chair. Why woman would hold their wineglass in both hands. How to avoid a speeding ticket and much more! Signals gives you the answers. Whether you're going for a big business deal, meeting that certain someone or aiming for a raise, Signals is your guide to unique power of communication that could change your life.

كل ما تريد معرفته عن إشارات الحب في لغة الجسد، من الكاتبيْن الأكثر شهرة على الإطلاق، صاحبي كتاب "المرجع الأكيد في لغة الجسد". - فَهم لعبة التزاوج. - فن المغازلة وعلامات التودد. - في السرَّاء والضراء – أسرار العلاقات الناجحة.كيفية استخدام لغة الجسد للحصول على شريك مثالي لعلاقة زواج طويلة وناجحة، كتاب إشارات الحب في لغة الجسد سيساعدك لتحسين لغة جسدك وتصحيحها التي طالما أعاقتك عن إتمام مَهمَّتك.

Sa spunem ca, prin mana destinului (sau din proprie vointa), ati ajuns intr-un context social (sau profesional) complet nefamiliar. Va doriti din toata inima intelegere, acceptare, afirmare, succes, recunoastere. Oricum l-ati numi, pentru obiectivul acesta aveti nevoie de acelasi abilitati de comunicare. Ii admirati pe cei care par sa aiba un talent natural de a se apropia de interlocutori si va spuneti in gand ca au charisma, iar aceasta e un dar de la Dumnezeu. Fiti siguri ca Dumnezeu i-a dat acelasi dar intregii specii. Insa, in cazul oamenilor influenti, e un dar indelung exersat - pana cand devine o a doua natura. Aceasta carte bestseller a sotilor Pease va arata cum sa faceti o prima impresie buna si durabila, cum sa captati atentia celorlalti, cum sa-i convingeti sa va adopte ideile si cum sa faceti astfel incat, la sfarsit, sa nu le ramana un gust amar. Allan si Barbara Pease va spun tot ce trebuie sa stiti. Cititi fiecare detaliu si aplicati-l in situatii reale, pana cand va apropiati de perfectiune.

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No matter how many letters you write, this book will help you communicate more effectively.You'll discover a book of powerful ideas and techniques that make certain your correspondence get read and acted upon. You'll learn how to break away from the starchy, formal rules of yesteryear – rules which stifle effective communication.Through many brilliant examples, you'll find "Write Language" not only enjoyable to read, but a constant source ideas to life your letters to new levels of effectiveness. For you, there'll be no more staring at a blank screen wondering how to start a letter. For you there'll be no more clichés like 'herewith our brochure for your perusal' or 'assuring you of our best intention at all times' which kill written communication. Both in your business and in your personal life, you'll discover "Write Language" is a unique and powerful book. It's a superb investment.This book shows:- how to persuade your readers to do what you want them to do- how to get a new job or a payrise- how to get immediate attention from your reader- how to write a letter of complaint to neighbours, business and government- how to build rapport and good relationships through letters- how to say what you mean – and get away with it- how to make money through letter writing

Toate secretele limbajului corporal intr-un ghid complet, intercultural, despre semnificatiile gesturilor de zi cu zi pe care oamenii le fac constient, dar mai ales inconstient.Probabil ai auzit de multe ori ca limbajul nonverbal face diferenta, insa nu ai stiut cum sa il controlezi pentru a-l transforma intr-unul dintre atuurile tale. Iata o carte care te poate ajuta. Allan si Barbara Pease au studiat limbajul trupului, au desfasurat experimente si au lucrat cu oameni din medii foarte diferite, totul pentru a descoperi ce inseamna limbajul corporal si cum te poate ajuta sa ai succes in relatiile interumane. Cartea de fata este un ghid complet al gesturilor pe care oamenii le fac mai mult sau mai putin constient.Lectura ei te va face mai atent nu doar la ceea ce spui, ci si la posturile tale din diferite situatii sociale sau la gesturile pe care le faci, invatandu-te totodata sa le decodifici pe ale celorlalti. Descopera tot ce trebuie sa stii despre tine si despre cei din jurul tau, in cheia limbajului corporal. Apoi foloseste ceea ce ai aflat pentru a fi mai increzator si mai responsabil - premise ale reusitei in interactiunile de zi cu zi.Allan Pease este cunoscut la nivel international ca "Mr. Body Language". Celebrul expert in limbajul trupului a scris impreuna cu sotia sa, Barbara Pease, cele mai bine vandute carti din domeniul relatiilor interumane. Cei doi sunt autorii a 18 bestselleruri - dintre care, de-a lungul timpului, zece au ocupat prima pozitie in diferite clasamente - si au sustinut seminare in 70 de tari. Titlurile lor sunt citite in peste 100 de tari, traduse in 55 de limbi si insumeaza pana in prezent vanzari de peste 30 de milioane de exemplare.Au aparitii regulate in presa internationala, iar activitatea lor a inspirat mai multe seriale, un film si patru piese de teatru, acestea fiind vizionate de milioane de oameni. Allan si Barbara Pease locuiesc in Australia, au sase copii, opt nepoti si practica ju-jitsu.

After more than 30 years of research into how people's relationships work or sometimes go wrong, Allan and Barbara Pease are constantly being asked for tips and advice as to how anyone can work out how their relationship is progressing. Now in this fun quiz book, the Peases have come up with a series of entertaining questionnaires that look at all the key aspects of how we interact, based on the subjects that they are most frequently asked about. There are chapters on talking and listening to help you find out if your partner is really paying attention; how to ensure that that search for an idyllic holiday home in the countryside doesn't become a nightmare when the navigator gets you hopelessly lost; how to find the right partner for you and how to make sure that once you've found them you both continue to be happy together; dealing with their in-laws and relatives; and how you can communicate properly. With their unique blend of in-depth research and witty insight into human nature, the Peases have written a book that will help you in your relationship - and make you laugh as you learn.

The state of our relationships with our partners – or our lack of partners – is a constant source of human discussion and one of the prime topics of female conversation everywhere. Few things can give us such joy and elation yet, at the same time, can produce so much pain and despair. Love has always been the most common theme in music, soap operas, romance books, literature, movies and poetry. People in every culture experience love, and every culture has words to describe it.

In this book, through a unique cartoon-style format, the reader will learn a powerful but incredibly simple technique of dynamic recall. Readers are required to visualise a number of images known as Memory Pegs. The techniques of harnessing memory power includes: - How to remember lists forever - How to recall information in any order - How to use creative imagination.

E dovedit stiintific ca gesturile pe care le facem ne tradeaza adevaratele intentii. Cu toate acestea, putini stiu sa interpreteze limbajul trupului sau sa constientizeze ce transmit ei insisi in interactiunile cu ceilalti. Cand Allan si Barbara Pease scriu, eu citesc! Si subliniez. Si invat. Si rad. Si „fur“ din cunostintele lor. - Tom Peters Allan si Barbara Pease ofera un ghid care iti dezvaluie se­­cre­­tele comunicarii nonverbale. Scopul lor este acela de a te face mai increzator in relatiile pe care le ai si la intal­nirile care au ca miza legarea unei relatii noi. Fie ca vrei sa faci o impresie buna, fie ca iti doresti mai mult, cum ar fi sa iti gasesti partenerul ideal, cartea te va conduce spre oricare dintre telurile tale. Vei avea parte de o lectura cu adevarat placuta, in care multe strategii cu aplicabilitate in orice situatie com­­ple­teaza intr-un mod antrenant informatiile oferite de sotii Pease. Vei invata sa comunici mai bine si sa percepi la un nivel mai profund interactiunile cu cei din jur.

Allan si Barbara analizeaza cu maxima sinceritate si cu o doza considerabila de umor gandirea barbatilor si a femeilor fata de sex si dragoste, explicand diferenta de viziune dintre cele doua tabere. Bazandu-se pe cercetari despre creier, pe noutati din psihologie si pe statistici relevante, sotii Pease transpun descoperirile stiintifice de ultima ora intr-un limbaj accesibil, abordand fara menajamente un subiect de mare interes pentru majoritatea oamenilor €” sexul!Avand deja la activ multe bestselleruri ce trateaza problemele cu care se confrunta cuplurile, Allan si Barbara Pease vin de aceasta data cu o carte ce infatiseaza dorintele barbatilor si ale femeilor in materie de relatii amoroase. Indispensabila pentru cei care-si doresc sa aiba o relatie reusita cu partenerul sau cu partenera de viata, aceasta carte doresc cu adevarat femeile si barbatii cand vine vorba de sex si dragoste;cum sa gasesti partenerul sau partenera potrivit(a) si sa fiti fericiti impreuna;ce e de facut cand chimia da gres;ce-i excita sau nu pe barbati si pe femei;cum sa reactionezi, in cazul in care esti inselat(a);cum sa descoperi dragostea vietii tale si s-o pastrezi alaturi;cum sa le determini pe femei sa faca sex mai des;cum sa-ti recapeti sarmul.Allan si Barbara Pease sunt cei mai de succes autori ai Australiei. Cartile lor sustin dezvoltarea personala si organizationala a multor oameni, de pe tot cuprinsul globului, oferind sugestii remarcabile in problema esentiala a relatiilor umane